There are many ways that technology can complicate a pending divorce case. Spouses may misuse social media to disparage one another or may request social media access via discovery, which leads to hundreds of pages of content to review.
Those with children may find themselves arguing over appropriate parenting rules for technology. Parents may disagree about what forms of technology they can use to communicate with the children and standards for the children’s private use of devices as well. They may also have a hard time separating previously joint online accounts and changing all of their known passwords to something secure.
There are also certain ways that people can use technology to protect themselves and begin preparing for a divorce. The three tech moves below can be smart decisions for those preparing for an upcoming divorce.
Managing parenting issues through an app
Direct communications between parents who divorce can quickly devolve into arguments. Allegations about what people say during those discussions can be difficult to prove. By using a parenting app, it is possible to keep records of all important communications in one centralized and verifiable location. Parents may have an easier time maintaining an amicable dynamic when they know everything they say could be visible to others. These apps also allow for easy collection of evidence for any future legal disputes.
Investing in security packages
In scenarios where people fear for their safety or worry about misconduct, such as the removal or theft of marital property from the home, investing in a digital security system can be a smart move. People may be able to see immediately if their spouse tries to inappropriately access the home without their consent or otherwise engages in concerning behavior that puts their physical safety or finances at risk. Be mindful of using devices that pre-dated your separation; some devices, such as Ring cameras, that were hooked up to a home’s security system before a separation may be accessible by the spouse who left the home.
Gathering financial records
The internet makes it possible for people to quickly and effectively gather accurate information about household expenses and prior income tax returns. Instead of waiting for a spouse to make disclosures through the formal discovery process, it may be preferable to request copies of statements and other key financial records digitally. It is faster and more accessible to do so now than ever before. The records people gather can then help them identify discrepancies in the official disclosures made by a spouse during divorce proceedings. Do this as soon as possible especially for joint accounts, where one spouse may try to change a password or remove access to “lock” you out of the account.
Those preparing for divorce may need help finding ways to use technology safely and learning about mistakes with technology that could negatively impact the outcome of their divorce. The sooner people consult with someone who knows the divorce process well, the better they can protect themselves.
