Artificial intelligence has become an increasingly common tool for couples who are navigating the early stages of divorce. It can help people gather information, organize finances and even start brainstorming potential custody arrangements. It can also help co-parents in higher conflict situations write more neutral messages.
With that said, while using AI can be beneficial in the beginning stages of divorce, it’s no substitute for experienced legal counsel once the process becomes more serious and/or contested.
Broad strokes vs. The nitty gritty
During the early stages, AI-driven platforms can help users understand the basics. They might offer checklists for separating finances, suggestions for co-parenting schedules, or templates for dividing assets. Some apps use AI to analyze spending habits or generate initial proposals for child support. These tools can be useful for framing conversations and helping spouses think practically about what life after divorce might look like.
AI can also be helpful when a person is unsure where to start; having a neutral tool that outlines potential next steps can be comforting. Some programs offer prompts to help users reflect on what matters most to them or what they want to prioritize in the divorce process. These insights can be helpful when preparing to speak with an attorney or begin mediation.
However, as the process moves from general planning to legal action, the usefulness of AI drops significantly. AI doesn’t understand the nuances of human relationships or the long-term consequences of poorly written agreements. It can’t advise someone on how local laws might impact child custody, nor can it account for the complexity of marital dynamics—especially in high-conflict or high-asset cases. Many AI tools will also specifically note that it cannot provide legal advice. Remember also that AI gleans information from all parts of the internet, and may not be aware of it is sharing misinformation.
Ultimately, AI is a tool, not a solution. It can help you get organized and better understand your priorities early on in the divorce process, but it should never replace personalized legal guidance when your future is on the line.
